Squirting 101: How To Squirt

I didn’t set out to become a squirter.

In fact, the first time I used the Njoy Pure Wand —a stainless-steel dildo famous for its G-spot pressure—I felt… nothing. Not even a tingle. I thought maybe squirting just wasn’t for me.

But that all changed during a weekend getaway with my husband.

We booked a charming Airbnb—just a quiet little bed-and-breakfast retreat so we could relax, unwind, and of course… play. Naturally, I packed lingerie, my toy bag, and the Pure Wand. Why not give it another shot?

A Bubble Bath, a Wand, and a Wet Surprise

After a warm, luxurious bubble bath, I was already in a deep state of bliss. I started touching myself, letting the water and the moment completely relax me. My husband joined me, running his hands across my skin, heightening every sensation. When I stepped out of the tub, body still slick and warm, I reached for the wand.

I slid it inside slowly, letting my body tell me what it needed. That’s when I noticed something different—a squishy sound, almost like wet suction. I was wetter than usual, turned on in a way that felt raw and intense.

And then—out of nowhere—I squirted.

Like, really squirted. The kind of splash that made us stop and stare at the floor in disbelief. And that was the moment everything changed.

**So What Was Different This Time?**

I’ve thought a lot about that first squirt. Why did it finally happen then—after years of thinking I couldn’t?

Here’s what I believe made the difference:

I was genuinely relaxed. No pressure, no goal. Just pleasure.
I wasn’t worried about the mess. We were in a space with non-carpeted floors, and I wasn’t thinking about cleaning up.
I didn’t stop when I felt the “pee feeling.” That’s the biggest mental block. Squirting often feels like you’re about to pee—but it’s not. I leaned into the sensation instead of shying away.
Time didn’t exist. There was no rush. I let myself sink into the experience with no distractions or time limits.

It’s wild how something so natural was hiding behind tension and overthinking.

Now? I Can’t Stop Squirting.

That one moment opened the floodgates—literally. Once I gave my body permission, squirting became a regular part of my solo sessions and partnered sex. I’ve recorded scenes where I’ve squirted over 16 times in a single video. My bed’s never dry, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

My Favorite Squirting Toys

If you want to unlock your own inner super soaker, these are my go-to tools of the trade:

Njoy Pure Wand – The OG for G-spot pressure. Firm, cold, curved, and gets the job done.
Lovense Lush 3 – Great for remote G-spot play during cam shows or solo edging.
Lovense Dolce – Dual stim, hands-free, and made for deep solo squirting sessions.
My fingers! – Don’t underestimate the power of curved fingertips and patient rhythm.

Bonus tip: Lube is essential. I love Sliquid H2O—it’s water-based, glycerin-free, and gentle on your body.

Where To Watch Queen Lexi Squirt?

I’ve made squirting my signature—and yes, I love filming every messy, beautiful moment.

Here are some of my most-watched solo squirting scenes:

You can also find even juicier, uncensored squirting content over on:

Fansly – Gnomies get lots of squirt content
ManyVids – Premium PPV
SextPanther – Text or Video call Queen Lexi for Squirting Calls

How can I learn how to squirt?

Focus on internal pressure (especially your G-spot), use plenty of lube, and give yourself time. When you feel like you might pee—don’t stop. Push through that feeling and let it happen.

What toys should I use for squirting?

Curved wands like the Njoy Pure Wand or dual stimulators like the Lovense Dolce are amazing. Your fingers work too—just hook upward and use firm, rhythmic strokes.

Is squirting pee?

No. While it passes through the urethra, squirt fluid is different from urine, and studies show it’s a mix of fluid from the Skene’s glands and traces of pee. It’s normal, natural, and hot AF.